In my tasting experience, milk temperature isn't a "yeah, whatever"-thing. End the steaming too cool and it will have a taste too much similar to drinking cold milk, which doesn't balance too good with espresso. Steam too much (going much above 70 degrees C) and you will get a burnt taste like porridge and lose sweetness.
It's of course okay if you play by a "made with love, not work"-mindset. But I cannot grasp how so many go to extreme measures to achieve complete consistency in espresso, to make the optimal shot and to be able to reproduce that time after time. And yet when it comes to milk its a yeah-yeah matter. As stated, in a cap, you have two thirds (roughly, often more) milk to about one third espresso. You could also argue with the "well yeah, but I like how it tastes my way". Which has been a hot topic discussing coffee brewing, especially with pour over. The members here doesn't seem like the "oh well, it tastes good, I'm gonna leave it at that"-type

Also, one thing is the home barista, another is professional baristas, both in cafés and also the WBC. We are measuring doses, time our shots, long for technology in grinders that will deliver accurate doses down to 0.1 grams and espresso machines with built in scales in the drip tray, but a thermometer? A good barista should be able to feel with great accuracy the perfect milk temp with his palm, day after day? I still think something about that is iffy.