The "spray," which we refer to as "sprites," is usually caused by things such as distribution problems, poor tamping, over-dosing (a problem with Silvia because of the center bolt on the shower screen and shallow Rancilio baskets) and maybe even a damaged or worn portafilter basket. Lock the PF and then remove it before extraction, there should be, at the most, only a very slight mark from the center screw. You probably would do well to change to the La Marzocco basket or equivalent. Also, are you using a proper-sized tamper and not the plastic joke that came with Silvia?
In my opinion, either there is a problem with Rocky, or you only think you found the zero point. Grind finer until you can choke Silvia, then go more coarse one step at a time. Don't worry about the burrs. If you can't choke Silvia the burrs in the grinder most likely need replacing anyway.
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