Let me clarify that 160 is the temperature not 165. I stop on the way up using a thermometer and the needle continues to rise after.
I like it hot enough to take small sips, but it would be too hot to take gulps. But who wants to gulp their latte's.
I'm in Italy all the time and live 1 hour from the border, and yes its true that the latte's are probably luke warm at best and very foamy. I always ask where they get their beans and am always surprised to hear some commercial brand.
I always wondered why the spaghetti, and coffee was so much better when you go over the border and I can only attribute it to the water. They must have different water. Like the H&H bagels in New York that no bagel anywhere else can compare. It must be the water

Anyhow, not to get too far off subject, in the end, I believe that rather fitting a formula, you have artistic liberty to make the cup the way you like it, strength, foam, and temperature. 160 does not cut the sweetness out of my milk or I wouldn't do it, caus I like it sweet.