I had good success using an end wrench. The actual "head" of wrench is narrower then an adjustable wrench or channel locks.
Just be sure to take it easy. It will take a little bit of force to loosen it, but keep in mind that you do not need to use gorilla strength to tighten or loose these nuts. Brass is a softer metal.
I have seen some users on CoffeeGeek asking to rent a pressure gauge from other users. If you can find a member in your area that has one, maybe you can do the same. If you lived in the States i would have been glad to lend you mine...
You are correct. The nut should be turned counter-clockwise to reduce. I did about half a turn at first, but then backed it out almost another half turn after pulling a couple of shots. I believe i am coming in at just under 9 bar right now. Though i am sure i will play with the setting some more in the future.
I do have the pre-infusion model. I am not sure if i can claim that the PID alone has given me better espresso, but it is still new to me. Consistency is what it is all about. For the past year i have found that i have been making up for Miss Silvia's lack of consistency by grinding finer, and tamping harder. The problem here is that i have only gotten great results maybe 25% of the time, and good results 50-75% of the time. High pressure leads to channeling no matter how good of a grinder you have, and ultimately leads to sink shots, or cappuccinos.
I have still been rather happy about the results, and I understood the shortcomings of this entry level machine when I bought it. I have found that some beans/roasts are a bit more resilient to shoddy technique/consistency when compared to others. I pulled quite a few good shots with Intelligentsia's Black Cat, but have found it a bit harder to get the same results out of Cafe Fresco's espresso blends (I have tried a few of their SO's, and had better results).
Changing up to the adjustable OPV, and the PID has really aided me in fine tuning the other problems, and sloppy technique i have, but could not prevent. I have only just started to use it, and have only used the SO Costa Rican that i had from Cafe Fresco thus far so only time will tell. But I can say for certain that the amount of channeling i have been getting has been dramatically reduced thus leading to better tasting shots.
There are two things the PID alone did for me. Temperature consistency, and has dramatically reduced the time it takes for me to pull two cappuccino's each morning. Couple those with the adjustable OPV, and they were well worth the $$
(I hope I didn't stray too far from topic)
-Donovan