Thanks for the help and information so far, I really appreciate it.
I think I will persevere with removing the element. Only then will I be able to decide what I am going to do next. It seems such a shame.
I am wondering if I could use the flange nut as is (without thread) as a spacer, and use the element to hold the boiler to a new base (with extra spacers as required), maybe an extra thick compressible seal that will allow the element to seal at a range of tightnesses. Without having the parts seperated, I can't really see if or how it could work.
As you say, a bit of thought
