Hi Cliff,
Glad to hear the machine arrived safely.
I use a group brush like
this one to reach into the groove and brush away grinds. Then I use a wet rag to wipe the shower screen after every shot.
As for the sneezing after a shot, I usually lift the lever up just a little bit to reduce the pressure over the puck. Some people may advocate against this as it sucks back up a little bit of dirty water into the head, but as long as you lift the lever all the way up after pulling your shots to run some clear water through, I think you'll be fine. Hope this fixes your problems!