For me, there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this . . . it all depends upon the number of guests and the guests themselves.
If we're having a dinner party for 20, I'll certainly brew coffee using my Chemex. If there are two or three couples over or dinner, I'll pull shots and make them what they want -- after all, they
are guests. In this, it's no different (for me) than being in the wine trade:
unless my guests are
all "into" wine, I'll serve wine(s) I think go best with the meal, but I usually have an alternative close by for the person who prefers beer, doesn't drink red wine, wants iced tea or sparking water, etc., etc., etc. In other words, unless I know they have their own semi-automatic at home, if they ask for a latte, period, I'll give them a 12-ounce latte.
But if they ask for a straight shot or a cappuccino, then I'm making 'em my way!
Cheers,
Jason