Yes, 4 months is awfully short. The valve gets gunked up with a sooty deposit -- no limescale, just "dirt".
This may be partly due to the fact that the Wega's hot water tap draws water through a heat exchanger rather than directly from the boiler. This means that over time, opening the steam valve effectively concentrates the sediment in the boiler. The boiler has no limescale deposits, only a black, sooty surface deposit.
Here's a pic of the heating element after 4 years. The boiler has been drained ~ every 6 months, but never opened before this and never de-scaled.

After ~ 4 months of daily on/off cycles, the ASV begins to leak slightly due to black deposits on the poppet valve behind the o-ring, and on the contact points between o-ring and teflon valve seat.
Perhaps I should be draining it every month?
There's no boss on the outside of the boiler where the ASV screws into it. The boiler looks as though it's only ~ 1/8" thick at that point.
I noticed that Grainger sells o-rings of various sizes and materials. There's an outlet only a few km from here -- I'll see if they have Viton o-rings in what seems to be the right size . . .
Rick