I'm getting ready to do the first descale of my Vetrano. I've had my machine for a little less than two years and am embarrassed to say that i have not descaled

(audience moans in the background). I'm in NYC and we have pretty soft water that i run through a whole house solid block charcoal filter with fiber media just in front of my intake.
I just installed Eric's adapter and using it along with reading all of the great HB posts on the subject has greatly steepened my learning curve. I'm experiencing low idle temps (108.5-109 with a BP of .93-1.15) and VERY long ramp up times from 185 (4.5-5 minutes). I noticed what looks like a little scale developing on the top mushroom nut just above the gasket and can sometimes find a drop of water. I'm going to pick up a 36mm wrench and pull it. I have a feeling it's going to look like Dan's ugly BEFORE photo of the pre-descale mushroom.
Either way i will descale the HX this weekend. I think i will just descale the HX as we are espresso and Americano (water from the flushes) drinkers and don't use the steamer more than five time a year. My question concerns the mushroom.
1.)If it's badly scaled will multiple passes of a normal descaling procedure remove all of the hardened crystal or should i disassemble the mushroom, gicleur etc and soak them all separately first? If so, any tips? I assume that if a soak is required, that i should not include the chrome top nuts in the acid bath!
2.)should i not pull the mushroom without a backup silicone gasket or will it likely be OK to reuse?
Also I have AirOSwiss EZCall for descaling dehumidifiers. does anyone know if its the same as Dezcal? It is made by Urnex and lists the same ingredients, but i should just call Urnex i guess.
Thanks to all Will