I'd like to thank you guys again for all the help.
I think my issues may have been related to what the user was having problems with:
http://www.myschiffman.org/cg/rebuild.htmlPart #3 seemed like it was jammed too far up against the spring not allowing the valve to open properly. I know this because after my first assembly I had pushed #3 all the way in until it bottomed out which cut all flow from the pump.
So like an idiot (hey this is my first time) I realized what I did so I took #3 back out and just set it inside the brass sleeve assembly and let the fitting that attaches to the pump push part #3 back as I assembled the pump back onto the fitting.
I noticed that the very first time I took the pump apart #3 was really deep, but I didn't think anything of it. Now with it farther out the pump seems to run a little quieter (this may just be my mind playing tricks on me) but it does ramp up much more smoothly. I have yet to see it cut out even once (yesterday it cut out most every time).
I'm going to give it a few days and if the pump keeps running right I won't worry about changing it out. I guess I'll just keep the new pump until I need it.
Really taking the pump out and working on it was pretty simple and now I know a lot more about my machine.
Maybe a silly question but would a boiler setting as high as 1.26-bar contribute to pump failure, am I shortening the life of my pump running this warm?