Dan's right, time to take a step back, put the gadgets away and come back to it tomorrow. The most likely problem is the human-side of the operation
try this for preparation. A finer grind as suggested above, drop the chopstick step, and simply "fluff-up" the grounds with your stirring device (you're the one with the cork-and-needles device aren't you?) ensuring that you distribute as much around the basket as the centre thus avoiding over-loading the centre with coffee. Finish distributing by NSEW swiping with the chopstick, leveling off the coffee at the edge of the basket.
Then just one level straight-down tamp, same force you're using now (changing tamp pressure is relatively unimportant) on a flat surface. If the tamp is skewed this will cause problems, so knock out the coffee and re-dose. No knocking, nutating, second-tamp or twist. You might try a flat tamper for comparison, I never liked using convex ones. That should be enough to nail the problem. The simpler the process, the fewer the number of problems can creep in.
Which coffee are you using, out of interest?
EDIT
Also, to avoid cross-posting this with TMC, I can understand your thinking behind a concave tamper to reduce side-channeling, but it's really not necessary. I've always thought that convex tampers were flawed in that they result in an unevenly dense coffee bed (biased towards the center), and I've never had really good results with them. That may be a personal thing though.
In any case, you can achieve perfect shots with a flat tamper, so the issue remains your distribution. I'm convinced that you can solve this without any fancy toys





