The cap valve is a vacuum breaker to relieve the vacuum that forms when the boiler cools down. It has been a cause of the intermittent pressure leak when powered up. The valve is supposed to leask a little at first till full pressure is up then it seals completely.
I am personally about to find a brass threaded plug at a hardware store and eliminate the leak issue.
The little cover cap can be made out of a disc of your choosing and cut to fit. An old poker chip perhaps? That will be fun to figure out.
The tamper is officially 49mm- but a custom tighter fit might me made with a few of the custom tamper makers found on line( a couple of great options here at HB) maybe a 49.4mm - you get the idea.
Grinder ? that is a whole question and thread in itself... hand mill, Rocky, Macap, Mazzer, Nuova Simonelli... etc etc. etc.
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Mo