Let me first say "Welcome" to HB . . .
Secondly, let me echo what's already been said about built-ins, super-autos, etc., etc.
The requirements of making great espresso are different from making great (brewed) coffee, and -- again -- with combination machines, compromises are made that often leave things lacking in both departments.
In an ideal world you would have an espresso machine AND a coffee maker, a dedicated grinder for espresso AND a dedicated grinder for brewing coffee . . . this, however, may mean you need to remodel TWO kitchens -- the second one in a completely different house, and the goal here is to AVOID divorce! Perhaps your husband will learn to love Americanos?
Several questions:
1. What is your overall budget?
2. Do you drink only espresso, or will you need to steam milk as well?
3. How many drinks do you anticipate making in a day? a week?
4. Does your husband only drink brewed (American) coffee, or does he enjoy coffee made in a French Press? (Please tell me he's not into instant!)
Cheers,
Jason