Ramsey could have put it more politely; but he has a point -- it takes time to learn how to make good espresso. Having topnotch equipment shortens the process, since you don't have to fight the machine and grinder to get them to perform, but you still need to have enough experience to know what you are doing.
In this, with all due respect, I don't think Schomer's book is much use. He gives a lot of rules for making good shots; but following them all is no guarantee the shots will be palatable, and I, or any other competent person, could certainly break every single one of them and still make tasty shots.
I hate to beat my own drum, but I think I take a better approach in my article --
http://www.home-barista.com/espresso-guide-skills.html
1. emphasizing manual skill, i.e. learning to make espresso is a lot like learning how to chop with a kitchen knife
2. emphasizing diagnostics, that is, knowing what good espresso tastes like, and knowing what's wrong with the taste of yours
The first is just a lot of practice -- get a naked portafilter, and practice until you can grind, load, distribute tamp, and pull 30 second, 1.5 ounce shots that flow right without even thinking, and certainly without making a huge production of any part of it -- no need to taste the shots at this stage -- oh yes, ebay the auto, espro whatever gimmicks and get something that feels comfortable, or even use the tamper mounted on the doser - it's espresso, not OCD.
The second means first tasting good shots; go to several places that serve them and try. It may even turn out you don't like straight espresso at all, or dislike many excellent and highly touted blends and production styles -- excellent espresso can range from very mild, understated, and sweet - Zoka's comes to mind here, to very powerful and quite dry, like Vivace's. If one end is your epitome of perfection, you will probably dislike the other end.
It also means learning what to do if the espresso is too bitter, or sour, or thin, or overpowering, etc. etc. etc.
So I'm terribly sorry to say this; what it comes down to is that you'll have to give yourself a lot more time.