It was late when I replied, and sorry that I missed the details.. I even specifically looked for the details.. anyway:
First step is to check the thermometer's accuracy- things happen, you know. Mark the thermometer's insertion depth and remove it from the group. Check it in ice water and boiling water, keeping your altitude in mind.
While you have it off, pop the thermometer open as if to replace the battery and make sure that the thermocouple leads are still siliconed in place where they exit the electronics and enter the probe (mine had come loose once).
It was a good pull on Eric's part that thermosyphon stall is a possibility. I have a page on that:
http://home.surewest.net/frcn/Coffee/stall.htmlI have experienced that.
You stated that you hit 202 after the flush, but what was the highest temp recorded DURING the flush? The temperature you are adjusting through the access opening in the inner divider, under the drip tray, is the boiler's pressure, which is an indirect measurement of the boiler temperature. Additionally, measuring the temperature without coffee in the portafilter is not all that accurate when just letting the water flow through, particularly at your altitude. 202 with no coffee is not bad. I would recommend getting coffee in the thing and worrying more about the taste and less about the numbers on the thermometer. All things considered, from what you told us, I think you are a lot closer than you are assuming.
For a data point, I am at +/- 2130 feet. I just turned down my boiler pressure to about 1.05 because at 1.1 it was overheating the machine at idle. The flush would hit 210 to 211. Now the highest it gets on flushing is 208. The steam pressure suffers just a bit, but I am wasting a lot less water in the cooling flush than I was before. I will say that the gauges are not exactly mil spec hardware, so there will be slight variances from machine to machine in these readings and the subsequent performance.
Additionally, you mention that you have turned up the temp and the machine is making noises "like the boiler is about to explode." That is worrisome. The machine does have an over pressure safety valve, and hopefully that is working properly. Please share the values on the boiler pressure gauge with us.