Your high limit switch screws into the boiler top with M4 x 0.70 threading identical to the Rancilio Silvia whereas the Chris' Coffee pic shows the switch being held in place by a small metal bracket that goes over the top of the switch.
This small bracket is held in place by two small machine screws. On my Anita (and on many other Quickmill machines - but not yours

) there is a male spade terminal also held in place by one of those small machine screws. Yes, it is
very cramped in that area - those with big paws need not apply for a tech job.
In the pic below, the type of terminal you need is shown all the way on the right.

That terminal is either missing from your boiler or you are overlooking it. The ground clip is tin-coated copper.