One thing I don't get though is how the speed affects the pressure . . .
The TMFR, like all rotary vane pumps, is a positive displacement pump wherein flow is generally proportional to speed. The pressure in the system, as a result of this flow, is proportional to the square of the flow.

Greg S. has done an admirable job in applying this pump system in a commercial setting and that is a vast understatement -
http://www.home-barista.com/espresso-ma ... 11113.html However, keep in mind that this pump system is not YET ready for the home environment. The drive takes in 115-120 Vac and outputs ~ 90 Vac, 3-phase, variable frequency (30-120 Hz) to the pump/motor. The drive is (must be?) equipped with a filter card to meet UL requirements and this filter card is inherently not the "best of friends" with a GFI circuit in today's kitchens.
Other AC drives, more user friendly, are available on the market today - as an EXAMPLE -
http://web4.automationdirect.com/adc/Ov ... 3947184022. Whether any of these other drives can be applied to the TMFR motor/pump is, at least, questionable. In addition to the link that Peter supplied for the Fluid-O-Tech site in Italy, the USA site has more info on the TMFR series:
http://www.fluid-o-tech.com/