I did it on the cheap, with a T fitting I split the pump output into:
- [direct] a line going to hx/boiler (i.e. the original line)
- [shutoff+flow control valve] going to flow control setup (i.e. pressure control line), which is split again into:
- [flow control valve] one line goes to refeed rotary input
- [flow control valve] the other goes to feed general water input:
Here's a quick and dirty drawing I just made to clarify:

I paid ~US$30 for all parts and it works like a charm. The
[shutoff+flow control valve] is the only part I adjust pre/during extraction.
This works for my setup. Now, for yours I think the idea to take from what I did is that you can profile extraction pressure by profiling output flow; or to rephrase, by controlling how much restriction you put on the output line over the duration of a shot making session.
And...I think pressure profiling is worth the mess/fuss.