I agree about checking the coffee first before getting too carried away with temp and fussing with the pstat.
I'm certainly no expert, but have gone through this fairly recently with a millennium Pavoni. You're in LA, right? I would suggest going to one of the coffee bars listed here:
http://www.intelligentsiacoffee.com/locations/view/Los+Angeles+Roasting+Works+%2526+Training+Lab and having an espresso or two, and buying a bag of recently roasted Black Cat. When you get that home, grind it really fine, overfill your basket a little, stir with something pointy, then level it off with a knife or credit card before giving as level a tamp as possible. 5 lbs, 30 lbs, just make sure it's even. Lock it in and raise your lever slowly and smoothly, when it reaches the top hold it there for 10-15 seconds, then give it a strong smooth pull.
If it streams out easily without having to pull really hard, then try again with a finer grind.
On the other hand, if you can't pull the handle, then you have to turn off the machine (leave the lever down a bit) and patiently wait while things cool and depressure, then SLOWLY turn the portafilter. These things can sneeze hard an hot when you choke them. Then coarsen the grind a tad and try again.
With fresh black cat and hard slow shot that is nearly choked I think you will get a shot comparable to what you were served by the pros. From there you can experiment with coffee blends, group temperature, dose, grind, and tamp refinements to get a coffee that is perfectly to your taste.