Hi Guys and thanks again for the interest and comments.
I'm now back up and running but as promised I've taken some pictures to show you what I did.
My plumbers merchant was as usual really helpful and I came away with four washers, 2 x felt and 2 x rubber. All are heat resistant and will withstand high temperatures but the felt ones are apparently more heat resistant than the rubber ones. Total cost for four washers was a big fat "zero".
In Pic 1 you can see where the boiler was leaking - you can just see a drop of water around the immersion heater element.

Pic 2 shows the damaged washer on the heater element.

Pic 3 shows the order of the washers before re-assembly as rubber washers should go inside a recess so they don't squash out everywhere. I put some PTFE tape around the threads and added a felt washer on for good measure just to be sure.

In Pic 4 (after re-assembly) the felt washer is visible but the rubber one is hidden under the recess.

Pic 5 - Because of the extra thickness caused by the felt washer the heater element didn't screw in quite as far as it originally did, but only by less than a quarter of a turn. As the thread on the element/nut is quite long there is no chance of any leaks or the element becoming loose.

Since the repair not a drop of water has leaked and after being turned off overnight I was pleased to find a dry counter top this morning so I can consider the repair a success - and all for free!
Thanks again for the support and I hope others will tackle this simple job - after working out how to get the case off that is.
Best regards,
Paolo