Apologies for this quick meta-comment:
darilon wrote:...I almost never get pm's and am not in the habit of checking.
Assuming you have an active e-mail address for your forum account, clicking "Yes" for
Notify me on new personal messages will send you an e-mail when somebody PM's you. The board can also show a pop-up message when you login if you have new PMs.
That said, I don't like PMs and have them blocked (Allow users to send you personal messages: No). I prefer the board's e-mail form (Users can contact me using the e-mail form: Yes) since I don't want yet another Inbox to follow.