Ok, managed to drop the pression from 1.2-1.4 to 0.9-1.1. Takes 20s to stop boiling now, even though I will try again tomorrow when the system has reach the new temperature again.
As read, with that pressurestat it took a few turns to drop the pressure of 0.2 bars.
Managed to raise the pression as well. Now the manometer reads between 8 and 9. I think I am happy because if I try to raise it more the needle starts to be very unstable.
Tomorrow the taste-test

I am going to install waterproof rockers, the one installed get wet when pre-flushing the machine and then the breaker trips...
I am also going to replace the resins in the softener since the water coming off them smells funny.
Tonight I made an Apple on a lovely cappuccino!

I want to thank again everybody for the help.
Tony