It is our feeling that these are not minor flavor changes. We have learned, just this summer, about just how sensitive this process is. We were getting lots of variations in the cup that we thought was the natural result of the variability in the beans from one shot to the next or one day to the next. What it was was the small variations in brew parameters that we didn't imagine would affect the flavor, and that we therefore paid no attention to from shot to shot or day to day. Now we have serious repeatability.
We are not imagining things - nor exaggerating - when we say that the flavor change of .05 bar on the M3, 100 rpm grind speed on the M3 grinder, or 1-2 degree change on the Sivetz roast temperature on one of three beans in a blend - is a very serious flavor change. Any single one of these can make or break the flavor in a cup. And any one of these is repeatable.
I consider myself an average espresso lover and thus assume such minute subtleties would either be beyond my abilities to detect or acceptable variance. To put it in basic terms by way of example... I like red grapes more than white grapes, but I'll happily eat either for lunch. But if I'm really in the mood for grapes and we only have bananas in the house, well, I'm disappointed. I am struggling to grasp if the differences between such minute pressure changes would mean nicely ripe bananas, hard green bananas, or simply red grapes / white grapes. I don't mind a little serendipity in my espresso as long as it's within an acceptable range. In contrast, based on the writings of some professionals, I imagine them flying into a rage if the temperature is off by 0.4F from the previous extraction. That's not me.

More seriously and directly to your point: Is the tight control you describe within .05 bar of a fixed pressure, or do you intentionally vary pressure through the extraction to produce a "pressure profile"? Jim Schulman postulated on the positive effects in
Received wisdom about brew pressure (excerpted below) and I'm wondering if his findings are consistent with your own.
Dan I think that the fruit tastes analogies might work, but I think to refine the enquiry.
But first let's go back to the ability of you to detect the flavor variations. As I have stated, no one has yet to fail to identify them. You might not, but I would find it hard to believe that someone with your interest in flavor would fail. A .1 bar change was even clearly noticed by a young woman who doesn't drink or like coffee. We didn't think to try her on .05.
The difference is not like red or white grapes, which if both of fine quality give equal pleasure. It is more akin to the difference between wonderful grapes and adequate/slightly inadequate grapes of any kind. Then within further revisions of pressure one will find a whole panoply of different flavors - some appealing and some not appealing and they all are difficult to describe, but clearly different.
Bananas. Are you familiar with the possibility of finding a very fine ripe banana that tastes and smells perfectly as you imagine a ripe banana should and then another time finding a ripe looking banana that lacks all that quality. It looks the part, the texture is a little tiny bit off, but it just doesn't deliver the banana it promises. Almost tasteless and a bit mealy. This might take .1 bar.
Limes. Sometimes a lime is really brimming with limey sweet/acidic juice. More often today one finds limes which look like limes but deliver less juice and the flavor is certainly citric, maybe something of lime, but hardly satisfying.
Finally. I don't expect that any others have experienced precisely what we have - in fact I would be shocked! No one should expect to be able to hotrod a home or commercial machine in their spare time and have something that is on a par with what we did. Think F1 car versus very nice saturday night modified stock racer. While no one but home espresso fanatics were paying much attention to espresso quality, Versalab threw over 15,000 hours and $140,000+ into creating the most nutso espresso machine imagined. We are not stupid. If we could have accomplished 60% of the M3 by tricking out an available machine we would have. But we felt we saw too many problems with existing equipment so chose to go our own way. Then our development continually revealed new levels of clarity at each design revision. So we kept at it and at it. To some very fine levels of detail.
We presently use a fixed pressure brew.