The male stub on Silvia's boiler has 1/4-19 BSPP threads. These are parallel (straight) pipe threads and their "sizing" is, IIRC, more tuned in to the NOMINAL ID of the pipe to which they are sized.
A 1/4-18 NPT (US tapered pipe thread) brass fitting will screw onto Silvia's fitting and, with about two wraps of Teflon tape, will seal. Its not right but it works. Using a brass fitting will minimize the chances of screwing up the threads on Silvia's boiler. The "correct" way to do it is with the adaptor as you described.
FYI, here is a hydraulic diagram and some nominal flows for Silvia. This shows the old style OPV but the only change is that you can adjust the amount of spring compression internal to the OPV with the newer style.
Skol,
Eric S.