For what it's worth, the one I used with my Nino, the
Simran VT1500, was so-so. I should have gotten the VT2300F, as no adapters would have been needed and I think it's comfortably above the Nino's power requirement (IIRC a couple guys in Europe measured it pulling down ~1150W during operation). As you've found, a transformer needs to be rated well above a motor's operational rating because most motors draw way more current than they are rated for during the moment of startup. That said, the Nino should be pretty good about not doing this--it has a pair of start capacitors that are supposed to alleviate that problem and give it a much smoother startup. I'd still recommend getting a transformer way over the motor spec, though. And I will say of the Simran transformers that they are very rugged and heavy, but still manage to feel like Chinese-made crap.
As to heat issues: IIRC my VT1500 drew about 20-30W at idle (on and nothing plugged in). This seems really reasonable (about like leaving a CFL bulb on all day), and wouldn't cost you more than a few dollars a year. That said, it did get irritatingly warm to the touch for me. I don't think it was anything approaching a fire hazard, just a nuisance. One more thing to worry about breaking, and something that makes you feel uncomfortable hooking up to a $2000 grinder. Anyway, good luck with your search.