For me home roasting is not about spending or saving, it is about learning, experimenting, doing and enjoying. I could most certainly get better from an artisan roaster, but I enjoy doing it myself. Getting better at it, learning what I like and don't like, the conversations that it generates, on and on. Spending and saving really don't figure in to the picture for me.
So question is : How can I sell this so that it would make sense to my better half?
Selling the idea is another thing altogether. Sell the freshness, the variety, the hobby, the love of doing yourself (unless it's a haircut).
Barry B